It’s a “sticky” or should I say “poopie” situation…

It is not uncommon for people with autism to engage in fecal smearing. The reasons for them to do it are unclear. This was one of my biggest fears with my 7 year old girl. She never did it and has always had a germ phobia anyway. It has become reality with my 3 year old boy.

The first time our boy came close to smearing we just thought he was exploring. He would stick his hand in his diaper and then look at us like “What is this stuff?” We were constantly trying to remind him that “We don’t stick our hands down our pants.” I think we would remind him of this at least 50 times a day. Even if his hands even came close to his behind we would remind him again, and again, and again. Well it didn’t stop him.

One of the times that I remember the most is a day that my Mom was coming to visit. My boy had gone into my husband and I’s room. He was in there for maybe 5 minutes tops. It is not uncommon for him to go in our room and push his cars along the top of one of our dressers that has a big mirror behind it. He likes watching himself play. I was playing with my girl and could smell that he had pooped in his diaper.  I went to get him to change his diaper and noticed the poop all over his hands. My Mom showed up while I was trying to clean my boy up. Not only was it on his hands…It was on his back, his shirt, the front of his pants and all over him! I knew if it was all over him that the chances were pretty good that it was all over OUR ROOM!

Mom walked in the door just at the right time. She came in the door and I yelled “Mom! I might need your assistance!” Thankfully she jumped right in and started checking out our room. Sure enough there was poop on our rug, curtains, and a few more things. She cleaned up our room while I continued cleaning my boy. I put him in the tub cleaned him up and then cleaned the tub. I was hoping this was a one time thing…Well…It was not.

He did this just about every day for a week. Sometimes more than once a day. I was getting really frustrated and just didn’t know what to do. I tried punishing him, explaining to him that we just don’t do that. Tried getting him to go on the potty. He just screamed and cried. I started searching online for options or reasons he was doing this. Everything was so unclear. Well…the one piece footed pajamas became a close friend of mine. He pretty much lives in the footed pj’s when we are home. When we go somewhere or he goes to daycare I dress him. I hope and pray all the time we are out that he does not do this anywhere else. I keep a very close eye on him if we are visiting somewhere.

The good news is that he is not afraid of sitting on the potty now. He will tolerate sitting there for about five minutes. He has yet to do anything on it yet, but we are taking it one step at a time. We got him some big boy underwear and he is not going for that just yet. We are working on it, but don’t want to scare him away from it. I am hoping that when he is potty trained that the poopie situation will be a thing of the past. I can’t be sure of it though.

I have also started trying to put him in clothing (Other than footed pajamas) more often again just to see how he does.  I am also going to get a couple pairs of overalls. (Just as a backup.) As of today he will try to stick his hands down his pants, but has not done the smearing in a couple weeks. (Knock on wood.) As long as I am watching him like an eagle he will not put his hands in his diaper. All I can say to end this post is …AUTISM STINKS! LITERALLY!

This entry was posted in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink.

2 Responses to It’s a “sticky” or should I say “poopie” situation…

  1. Ruby says:

    I know at work we use a lot of reinforces when it comes to potty training. There is always this
    special thing (ex: candy, a favorite toy, anything the child loves) that they only get when they sit on the potty. So after a while they get excited about going to the potty and it becomes engrained into their routine. We always start slow so in the beginning it might be walking into the bathroom and they get verbal praise and the reinforcer, then the next week it might be just siting on the potty with their pants up, then the next week pants down and so on and so fourth. You may have already tried this but I figured I would throw it out there! Also overalls can be a miracle worker if he is smearing, and it is great for the public. You are an amazing mom and I look forward to hearing more about your journey!

  2. Amy Day says:

    I lol’ed reading that. We went through a similar thing with James. Potty training was pretty much a nightmare. He always needed to be on all 4 to go and most always behind a chair or under his thomas table. When he did go it was as hard as rocks and little balls. Once James mastered being able to sit or stand and poop he would kick them out his pant legs!!! We would find these little balls anywhere and everywhere. I can even recall a time at a fair when he was in a really big bounce house and I hadn’t seen him for a few minutes. When I did see him I knew exactly what was happening but it was to late. I had to crawl in this bouncy house to get him and “pick up” while a ton of kids were running around with James’ little poop balls bouncing around too! We never had the smearing but we had poop balls kicking around, and I agree Autism does stink 😉

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s